Of all the forms of unhappiness in our society, sexual unhappiness is the most tragic, because it is so widespread, and because it is avoidable.
We are taught that sexuality is about bodies, techniques and orgasms. It’s not true: primarily, it is about expression of the deepest aspects of ourselves, and the overcoming of a profound loneliness and isolation through heartful, embodied connection.
In this workshop, I will join forces with my friend and fellow sex coach Alison Pilling ( www.sexschoolforgrownups.com) to teach Couples how to enable their erotic lives to flourish and deepen.
We will teach you about Mosher’s sexual styles, so you can understand and appreciate the different ways human beings are in their sexuality, rather than see difference as a sign of failure or disappointment.
We will introduce you to the Wheel Of Consent, which can dramatically enhance clear communication with your partner.
We will teach you different ways to touch, and how to greatly widen your touch vocabulary.
We will show you how you can expand your idea of what touch is, so it becomes a source of creativity and innovation, rather than repetition.
We will introduce you to the Wheel Of Sexuality, opening you up to a vast landscape of variety and connection.
We will give you a series of practical, heartful exercises which you can practice at home.
This is the only workshop that Alison and I will be offering in Scotland until Autumn 2020, we’re inviting 12 couples to spend time with us, enjoying learning new ways of relating.
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