Have you found that in the course of your relationship, the sex between you and your partner has become much less frequent, become less enjoyable, or even stopped, and you don’t know why?
Have you tried talking [psychosexual] couple therapy and found it didn’t work that well for you?
Have you tried Relate or other sorts of Sexual Counselling for Couples but found it unsatisfactory? Or perhaps helpful for some parts of your relationship, but not really dealing with the intimacy aspect? Were you given Sensate Focus Exercises which didn’t really work for you?
Are you a new or fairly new Couple who would like to explore deepening your sexual connection to ensure your relationship keeps thriving?
I believe that I offer an effective way to work with Couples, particularly online but also in person, to directly address issues of lack of pleasure, arousal or interest, feelings of disconnection, limitation or boredom, as well as helping Couples future proof their relationship against these issues by exploration and growth now.
Men often see problems in terms of performance, and women in terms of satisfaction, but the real issue isn’t what you do, it’s what you both feel.
We will always go at your pace and discuss and agree everything in advance.
For Couples, these are some of the issues worked with:
– Better communication
– Sexless relationships or reduced sexual connection
– Less interest in sex than before
-lack of satisfaction or pleasure
-differences in desire for sex
– need for a wider variety of experience
– Knowing what you want and earning how to ask for it
– How to give and receive
– The importance of emotional intimacy
– Lack of arousal and connection
– Understanding different sexual states and modes
As a first step, if you are curious about my work but are not sure if I can address your particular issue, why not complete my short questionnaire?