I’m a Somatic Sex Therapist & Sex Coach, in Glasgow, Scotland, for Individuals and Couples wanting more pleasure and connection
How can I have the sex life I want to have?
I can help you with intimacy, sexual healing, erotic pleasure and sexual confidence, through talking, consensual touch and education, in a variety of ways, each of which is warm, open, collaborative and – most importantly – safe. My work is for you if you want to feel alive: again, or for the first time.
In the Bodywork aspect of my practice, clients frequently come to me experiencing very little sensual or erotic pleasure. They often feel there’s something wrong with them. They may very rarely, or never, orgasm in partnered sex. When with a partner they are often just focused on the needs and wants of the partner. They might suffer from issues like vaginismus. Or, they just want to discover and be more happy and more free in their unique erotic being, but are not sure how. If any of this sounds like you, I can work with you in an agreed and consensual way, so you can feel confident and at home in your body, establishing pleasurable relaxation as the foundation for building an eroticism which is authentic to you, and which enables you to have happier relationships, and better, passionate sex. Touch is one way only and I remain clothed throughout the session.
In the Sex Coaching aspect of my practice, I work with you to discover and liberate your unique sexual nature, which is often repressed.
In my Couples Therapy, I help you deepen intimacy and open up the range of your sexual expression, confidence and connection. Your relationship needs loving care and attention to grow. Please don’t wait until there’s a crisis.
And in my Sexual Education work I teach men and women how to touch and relate and how to gain ease and a sense of connection. This is particularly useful if you feel you are sexually inexperienced or lacking confidence.
Please see my videos below for more information.
You can read more about my approach here.
You could also have a look at my free mini course Sexuality Maps. There’s a subscribe button on this page.
I am a seasoned sex therapist and somatic sexologist [ I’m a member of The Association Of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists] and am based with my partner Karen in the cosmopolitan West End of Glasgow, Scotland, a few minutes from excellent direct rail links to Edinburgh and West Central Scotland, and 20 minutes by taxi from Glasgow International Airport.
If you’re interested in my sex therapy work but can’t do regular sessions because of distance – you’re in London, say, or Birmingham, or Dublin – I offer the option of working with you for an agreed amount of hours within a weekend visit to Glasgow. You can find out more how that works here
I was until recently the co-Creator and co-Principal Teacher of The School Of Conscious Touch, which provided unique in-person professional somatic sexology training in Scotland. I continue to provide one-to-one mentoring for people wishing to create their own practice in the sexuality field in a way authentic and unique to them, and I also provide supervision for practitioners.
I have written extensively about somatic sexuality, sexology, sexual pleasure, embodiment and relating, and you can find my articles here. These give a broad sense of the wide range of my work, and my perspective as a sexual therapist.
Addressing long standing sexual issues can be challenging. I appreciate the courage it requires, so I offer a free and completely confidential informal chat, either in person in Glasgow [or, by arrangement, in Edinburgh] or by telephone so you can find out more.
John Fraser is a member of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS), please check their code of ethics here.
John Fraser is insured with BGI for personal and public liability.