For individuals, here are some of the intimacy and sex issues I can help with. I am particularly interested in working with people who feel that they are inexperienced, who lack confidence, or who feel a bit disconnected from their sexuality.
We will always go at your pace and everything will be discussed and agreed beforehand. I can work with you online, by telephone, in person, or a combination of these:
Performance anxiety ➨ (Youtube video ‘How do I know what I want when I always know what I ought to want?’)
– Vaginismus and related issues ➨
– Shame ➨
– Issues with arousal and orgasm ➨
– Disability ➨
– Limited or no sexual experience ➨
– Feeling disconnected from or feeling negative to your body ➨
– Asexuality ➨
Lack of knowledge, skills or confidence
– Genital numbness ➨
– Trauma ➨
– Chronic unexplained pelvic pain ➨
– Low Sexual Desire ➨
More generally, I can be your sexual counsellor, helping you explore and deepen your sexuality, your potential for pleasure and connection, and issues with relationships and communication.
My fundamental belief is that your sexuality is a fundamental aspect of your dignity and happiness, but sometimes you need help to reconnect fully and heartfully with this innate aspect of yourself.
You may have become distanced from your own, unique sexual nature by harmful but widespread ideas of what sex should be like, what you should be experiencing, and the sense that everyone else is having a great time but not you. I do this work because I believe that sexuality is the greatest source of avoidable pain, and the biggest resource for unclaimed joy.
As a first step, if you are curious about my work but are not sure if I can address your particular issue, why not complete my short questionnaire? Alternatively, why not contact me?