Some people find that talking about sex in psychotherapy has not been particularly helpful, or that Relate or Marriage Guidance wasn’t particularly useful, and want to talk to someone who is comfortable with sexuality and won’t accidentally shame them.

Some people want to broaden their sense of what is possible. They have a sense “there must be something more!” but don’t know where to start.

Some people want to learn how to say yes, and how to say no. How to find out what they want, and how to ask for it.

Some people  want to talk, and not be judged.

Some people feel alienated from the performance focused, orgasm and body focused view of sexuality and want to integrate their sexuality with their heart and their soulfulness.

My training is unusual, and broad. I have been immersed in tantra for 15 years with Shakti Tantra. I have trained in Sexological Bodywork. I have trained extensively in The Wheel Of Consent and other modalities. I am a Zen Buddhist teacher who views sexual issues as a major part of avoidable unhappiness, and who treats his clients from a position of respect, empowerment and love. I do not have sexual relations with any of my clients, present or past. Any activity in the session will be discussed and agreed beforehand, and I will maintain the boundary of that agreement.

If you’re curious about whether we’d be a good fit, please contact me 

You can find a list of my articles, which give a good sense of the breadth of my work, here

If you’re interested in this field, want to work in person, but aren’t in Scotland, you should know that I offer a bespoke package of sessions over several days for those happy to travel to Glasgow.

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