My Manchester Sex Lectures Talk: The Vagina Does Not Exist
The Vagina Does Not Exist (the transcript of my talk at The Manchester Sex Lectures, 26/10/22) My first zen […]
Entries by John Webber Fraser
The Hidden Ideology Of Intercourse
For those people who think that sex is ‘natural’, sexual intercourse will be deemed the most natural. Surely that’s the […]
Women’s Sexuality: More Heresy
The most obvious idea we have about our sexual bodies is that they have a structure. And if we know […]
Orgasm and Emotion
What is the relationship between orgasm and emotion? When my dad died, 25 years ago, I felt emotionally blocked. I […]
What Is Tantric Massage?
What makes a massage Tantric? There are a number of elements, but these are the essential ones: a lot of […]
Why the language of arousal often isn’t helpful
What do you pay attention to when you’re touched? Say, for example, as you are reading these words, you allow […]
Why Sensate Focus [often] doesn’t work for Couples – and what might
Almost every Couple I’ve worked with has been to Couples Therapy with a counsellor or psychotherapist. It’s not surprising, given […]
What is the ‘Somatic’ in ‘Somatic Sex Therapy’?
“Somatics is a field which studies the soma: namely, the body as perceived from within by first person perception. When […]
Sexuality Maps
The idea that sex is natural is one of the many terrible ideas which – alongside Revolutionary Terror and Totalitarianism […]
How to start working with me [for individuals]
When you get in touch with me, you might be clear about what you want. You might want a tantric […]