Sexual Shame
Shame is endemic in our society, yet nobody talks about it. Which is strange, because it is the silent killer […]
Entries by John Webber Fraser
Cuddle Party
The First Cuddle Party was held 16 years ago in America, and since then, it has spread around the World. […]
Pelvic Pain
According to the NHS website, 1 in 6 women are affected by chronic pelvic pain. That’s an extraordinary statistic. A […]
Sexual Empathy
One of the more difficult things in our intimate lives is to change our lover’s behaviour. If we say something […]
Understanding Male Anatomy
It’s one of the truisms of sexuality that women’s sexuality is elusive, and men’s is obvious. It’s obvious, because -presumably […]
Tantra For Couples
(This is an article I wrote for my tanta teacher, Hilly Spenceley Of Shakti Tantra. She pioneered Women only tantra, […]
Genital Massage
I talked to my Zen Group the other week about the language we use when we talk about the body. […]
Working With Couples Sexuality
Imagine you own a string of fitness studios. Things aren’t going well. You’re on the verge of bankruptcy. In desperation, […]
The Many Ways Of Working With Sexual Issues (1)
How do people like myself work with clients who have sexual issues? It’s an important point, because until it’s […]
Sex Therapy For Couples (2)
Sex Therapy should start with a recognition that what we regard as sex is very restricted and almost guaranteed to make most people dissatisfied most of the time