Women’s Sexuality: More Heresy
The most obvious idea we have about our sexual bodies is that they have a structure. And if we know […]
Entries by John Webber Fraser
Orgasm and Emotion
What is the relationship between orgasm and emotion? When my dad died, 22 years ago, I felt emotionally blocked. I […]
What Is Tantric Massage?
What makes a massage Tantric? There are a number of elements, but these are the essential ones: a lot of […]
Why the language of arousal often isn’t helpful
What do you pay attention to when you’re touched? Say, for example, as you are reading these words, you allow […]
Why Sensate Focus [often] doesn’t work for Couples – and what might
Almost every Couple I’ve worked with has been to Couples Therapy. It’s not surprising, given the ubiquity of Relate and […]
What is the ‘Somatic’ in ‘Somatic Sex Therapy’?
“Somatics is a field which studies the soma: namely, the body as perceived from within by first person perception. When […]
Sexuality Maps
The idea that sex is natural is one of the many terrible ideas which – alongside Revolutionary Terror and Totalitarianism […]
How to start working with me [for individuals]
When you get in touch with me, you might be clear about what you want. You might want a tantric […]
How to start working with me [for Couples]
Our first point of contact will generally be one of you filling in my short enquiry form giving me your […]
What Is Intimacy Coaching?
What is intimacy coaching? When people come to a sexuality professional, the general sense is that something will be done to […]