Sexual Healing
How does sexual healing work? I have a client who’s been coming to see me for about a year. When […]
Entries by John Webber Fraser
No More Bad Sex
If you ask a heterosexual man what bad sex is, he’s likely to say it’s when sex is boring. He’s […]
Porn for women
Ages ago, before the internet, I had an affair with a woman who liked porn. We’d have sex, and while […]
Dealing with Premature Ejaculation
When we talk about premature ejaculation, we’re really talking about several different issues, and it’s helpful to distinguish them. […]
Sex Counselling for Couples
One thing that affects sexual confidence for couples is that a surprising amount of people have only had sex with […]
Am I Asexual?
“Our desire for connection is tangled up in a culture of sexuality” -David Jay, The Asexual Visibility and Education Network […]
Disability and Sexual Expression
One of the clients I found most challenging when I started as a sex coach was a delightful young woman […]
Losing My Virginity
How did you lose your virginity? What was it like? I lost mine to a nice woman in HR at […]
Curing Vaginismus
According to the NHS website “it’s not fully understood why the condition (vaginismus) happens. Factors can include: thinking the vagina […]
Male and Female Orgasms
In the Woody Allan film ‘Manhattan’, a female character says “I finally had an orgasm, and my doctor told me […]